5 things only men must deal with

Hakim Asraf
3 min readJul 29, 2019

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When we talk about men’s issues,

There are many social and physical issues men’s usually face, no wonder women have their own set of issues, but we will stick to men’s issue for now.

Here are the top 5 things men usually must deal with

1. Hover hand

The first on the list is the hover hand, I have seen this very often in men who have low confidence for being a picture with a pretty girl.

But there are few men who comfortably pull this off.

Can we fix this? Yes, by reciprocating

If you tend to pose with a girl and she is up close to you or puts her arm around you then it’s a perfectly ok to return the gesture

2. Mood — we’re always expected to be in the mood

As men, we deal with a lot of different characters, one among them being “Busy” most of the time. We invite pressure even if we don’t want it.

In a recent survey, an interesting stat showed up that the sex stops being a priority after the age of 40.

Many responsibilities and other factors lead to this downside

So not in the mood? That’s ok

3. We always tend to make the first move

In the build-up to the point above, another issue is the fact we are obliged to make the first move.

A recent study from the renowned Men’s fashion magazine found out that 94% of women tend to be asked out to the opposed 6% of the men. That’s a huge difference.

Which in turns means men are more likely to get rejected.

There is no getting around this one though, you’re probably the one making the first move whether you like it not.

The best way to learn is to approach more women, this will help to learn as well as it will teach to deal with rejection.

4. Men die much sooner

It’s not me who is saying this, but a recent article from the Harvard medical states that around 57% of people over 68 are men and 67% of people over 85 are women.

So, on average, women outlive us by 5 years

Men tend to take unnecessary risks throughout our lives, most cases are likely to have heart conditions or any other medical.

Be careful buddies, go to the doctor for regular check-ups.

5. Men generally suck at emotions

The society tells that men can’t express feelings except for anger, and to an extent it is true. Us men need to accept and address this.

We tend to go by an image to replicate being a macho man, this in terms we fail to develop stoic character. Men bottle their emotions and fail to express productively.

It is needful that you admit to yourself it’s okay to feel sad, happy or sensitive.

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Hakim Asraf
Hakim Asraf

Written by Hakim Asraf

Content creator at USA- Based men’s magazine

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